More on an asymmetric life, transient global amnesia

More on an asymmetric life

I enjoy receiving Current Psychiatry each month and read Dr. Nasrallah's editorials with great interest, as there is often an interesting angle to the topic. However, I found your recent editorial (“The joys and rewards of an asymmetric life,” Current Psychiatry, May 2023, p. 7-8,16, doi:10.12788/cp.0361) perplexing. You and I (and most male physicians) have certainly been privileged, but not everyone gets to lead an asymmetric life. For many of our patients, an unbalanced life is part and parcel of their mental illness.

Too often, families bear the burden of an individual’s hyperfocused pursuits. I hope your wife has been able to pursue her occupation with the same zeal and commitment. We have all read biographies of driven individuals and, unfortunately, someone pays the price for another’s success. For every Steve Jobs, there is a Lisa Jobs.

If we were surgeons, I would applaud your essay. However, we are psychiatrists. If anything, we balance out the reductionist forces in medicine. When every other physician claims a cure with medications or procedures, we look at all aspects of the patient’s life to find the appropriate treatment. At least that’s what we should be doing.

I was part of the first class of residents to work under the 80-hours-per-week restrictions. I was grateful for the extra time to rest, exercise, and spend time with my wife. The 80-hour restrictions improved resident wellness and had no impact on patient care. There are intangible benefits of diverting the mind from a chosen pursuit (such as creativity).

There is no doubt that becoming number 1 in any field requires a tremendous amount of determination, sacrifice, and effort. But not everyone gets to be first. Our society’s single-minded focus on being the best has had a major impact on mental health, especially for children. I hope you can address that in a future editorial.

Sudhir Nagaraja, DO, MS
Fredericksburg, Virginia

Dr. Nasrallah responds

Thank you for your letter about my editorial. You obviously believe in leading a balanced life, and that’s fine if you so choose. I described why I decided at an early age to lead an intensive, “purpose-driven life,” which requires investing much more time than others do, to achieve my lofty goals and excel in my area of expertise (academic psychiatry). It is really a “calling,” and those who score an extraordinary achievement (a moonshot) in their life, including Olympic gold medalists, entrepreneurs, inventors, or Nobel laureates, must do exactly what I do. I am not urging anyone to do what I have chosen to do in my life. Everyone defines for themselves what constitutes the pursuit of happiness.

You mentioned my wife. Let me assert that she is highly successful as a mother and as a research psychologist. She is my extremely valuable life partner and very supportive of what I do. I am fortunate to have chosen well!

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