Diagnosed with a chronic illness: Should you tell your patients?
On the other hand, although Ms. N stated that the news of Dr. T’s diagnosis was “fine,” she was soon lost to follow-up, which suggests she was unable to handle the news. This is supported by her history of unstable relationships. Her insecure attachment style likely contributed to her inability to handle stressors, as evidenced by her frequent requests for admission. Dr. T also should have considered the possibility of transference, given that Ms. N struggled with abandonment by her father. Dr. T’s potential departure could represent such abandonment. In a patient such as Ms. N, being upfront about having a chronic illness would be more harmful than beneficial.
Maintain a patient-focused view
Receiving a diagnosis of a severe or chronic illness can be extremely stressful for physicians. Adopting the new identity of patient in addition to that of physician can cause tremendous anxiety. If you decide to continue working with your patients, it is crucial to be mindful of this anxiety and its potential to influence your decision to disclose your diagnosis to your patients. Do not allow your anxiety to contaminate the therapeutic work. Maintaining a patient-focused view of treatment will allow you to determine each patient’s ability to process disclosure vs nondisclosure of your diagnosis. Ultimately, this will help determine which patients you should tell, and which ones you should not.