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Pray With Me

The Hospitalist. 2007 July;2007(07):

“I think most physicians try to be very sensitive to these matters,” says Dr. Post.

Dr. Westle notes he has provided more companionate care (“hugging family and patients, sitting and talking about the good old days”) than spiritual guidance.

“Some patients and families feel supported simply by their doctor or nurse joining in a moment of silence or even holding hands during a spoken prayer,” adds Dr. Taylor. “Some of us are better than others at identifying and responding to spiritual needs. But I do think it’s a shared responsibility. The more people we can engage in identifying and responding to spiritual needs, the better patient, family, and medical team will be served. Hospitalists are in an excellent position to identify those needs because of their everyday contact. And if they simply make the right referrals, they’ve done a really good job.” TH

Gretchen Henkel writes frequently for The Hospitalist.

References

  1. Barnes LL, Plotnikoff GA, Fox K, et al. Spirituality, religion, and pediatrics: intersecting worlds of healing. Pediatrics 2000 Oct;106(4 Suppl):899-908.
  2. Post SG, Puchalski CM, Larson DB. Physicians and Patient Spirituality: Professional Boundaries, Competency, and Ethics. Ann Intern Med. 2000 April 4;132(7):578-583. Comment in: Ann Intern Med. 2000 Dec 5;133(11):920-1; Ann Intern Med. 2000 Nov 7;133(9):748-9.
  3. Kwiatkowski K, Arnold B, Barnard D. Physicians and Prayer Requests. Fast Fact and Concept #120. Available at www.eperc.mcw.edu/fastFact/ff_120.htm. Last accessed April 5, 2007.
  4. Taylor C, Lillis C, LeMone P. Fundamentals of Nursing: The Art and Science of Nursing Care, 5th ed. 2005. Philadelphia: Lippincott, Williams & Wilkins; 2005.

Advice for Prayer

Perhaps a patient or family asks the physician or a member of the hospital medicine team to say a prayer. If a physician is comfortable with that, a nondenominational prayer is best, say ethics experts.

It is appropriate to use a neutral term such as God rather than referring to Jesus or Buddha or Allah. Never assume a patient shares your belief system.

Quoting scripture can also be problematic because different churches do not share the same version of the Bible. Included in a chapter for nurses on this subject is this sample prayer:

“Lord God, our creator and healer, I entrust Mrs. Smith and her family to your loving care. Bring peace to their minds and health and strength to her body. Be with her as her [surgery or treatment] takes place. We remember all your blessings to us in the past and thank you. We’re confident of your help now, as we claim your promises.”4

She also suggests a non-denominational meditation that invokes general themes of peace and healing:

May you be at peace,

May your heart remain open,

May you awaken to the light of your own true nature,

May you know the power of your higher self,

May peace of mind be your only goal, forgiveness your only task,

May you be healed of all pain and hurt,

May you be a source of healing for others,

May you know the inner beauty of the person you truly are,

May you be at peace.

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