For those who have chosen the surgeon’s path, finding a sustainable work/life balance is challenging. For surgeons with young families and spousal responsibilities, achieving that balance may seem like an unattainable goal. As a rural surgeon with a spouse and children, I am here to say that rural practice has many benefits to those who love their work and also want a balanced life. I recommend that young surgeons, women in particular, consider this path for both the professional and personal advantages it offers.
I always tell the medical students that rotate with me, “When it is 4 o’clock in the morning and you forgot to go home ... be that.” That is to say, whatever rotation they are on when they have that feeling, that is the specialty they should choose. That was us when it came to surgery. When we were students going through surgical rotations we could not get enough. We wanted to see everything, do everything, and we didn’t want to miss anything. Many of our colleagues recommended against choosing surgery. We were told, “You’ll never have a life or a family;” “Your life will be horrible,” etc.
Now, many years later, I still love what I do as a surgeon. But I also love the other half of my life. I chose to practice rural surgery because I sensed that a balanced life would be possible in the rural setting. So I offer the following 10 tips for young surgeons who might be considering a rural practice:
1. Pick a good small town
Sit down and write out a list of all the things you want in a small town. My list, of course, will be different from your list but most importantly, make the list! It is no use taking a job in rural Colorado if you hate to hunt and fish. Consider the town and the job equally. For women surgeons, you may want to look for a place where there are women in upper administrative roles and other female physicians on staff. All small towns are definitely not alike and if you pick one for the hospital or the job without considering your surroundings, you will not likely be happy.
2. Don’t commute
Some people take a job in a small town or a rural setting but choose to live 30 miles away in the next larger town. I suggest living in the town you practice in. If at all possible, live close to the hospital. Every minute that you spend on the road is a minute away from your family. Living far away makes that 2 a.m. call from the ER that much more painful. You also miss out on the opportunity to become a real part of your community.
3. Choose the right partner
Small town physicians are tough to keep. Rural practice turnover is high. One of the most common reasons I hear for why a physician has left the area is because his or her spouse wasn’t happy. No matter how appealing the job seems, no matter how much bonus money they offer, no matter how great the hospital appears, if your spouse doesn’t like it there, you’ll be leaving. You may love your job and back country camping every weekend, but if your spouse pines for Whole Foods and the opera, you will be moving on eventually.
A large part of rural life revolves around events in the school system, and even if you have no young children of your own, it is helpful to make an effort to attend some of these events, if only to support your neighbor’s kids. It goes a long way to establish you as someone who is involved in the community and who cares. Remember, it is the mothers young and old who make many of the health care decisions for their families. Volunteer for events or get involved in the science program at the high school. You may find that you are a unique role model for teenagers in your community.
4. Choose the right partners
Rural general surgery is challenging enough without having to compete with those around you. Surgery in the small town setting becomes infinitely more pleasant when you have good partners. Is the practice set up to help and support each partner, or are you pitted against one another, competing for RVUs? Would your partners tolerate covering your call for 3 months of maternity leave or would this cause resentment? Look for a practice where the surgeons work together and cover for each other, and your small town life will be greatly enhanced.